You say you are her friend, known her from work, college or earlier. Really? A friend? Would that then make you culpable?
You are the family, father, mother and sister. You see her everyday. Would that make you culpable?
How can one ignore the silent screams for help and laugh of the addiction of alcoholism as if there was nothing wrong?
Friend? I would rather die alone, broke and miserable than call any of you a friend. A friend would not laugh along at the drunken antics of another friend. They would try and get help, make that friend see that their excessive drinking IS NOT funny, but hurtful and embarrassing.
You work with her and didn’t think that third or fourth drink at lunch daily was unusual? You didn’t notice her frequent breaks at work to hide her drinking?
Father, mother and sister. What poor excuses for human beings you are! The ones who truly knew of her drinking and ignored her addiction. Enablers each and every one of you. You are the worst of the worst.
All of you kept it hidden, not a word said, note passed or an anonymous letter. Her father waited until after the wedding then said “Now she is your problem.”
Her friends, those who loved going out with her, silent till the dying end. Her dying end. Only after her funeral did you feel it necessary to come forward and ask, not tell, ASK if I knew she had a drinking problem. Were you seeking absolution or some form of redemption so you could sleep easier? You won’t find it coming from me.
Too bad charges for her death can’t be brought against each and everyone of you. As far as I am concerned all of you are directly culpable for her death and your dysfunctional bunch can rot in Hell.